It’s…complicated. On its face I don’t have a problem discussing my feelings. I’m a living breathing human being and life hits all kinds of different ways.

I have learned that I can’t just tell any old person what I’m feeling or going through. And that the things I tell people.can and will be used against me. And no. Not just by women. Any person with a sufficient amount of cleverness and a busted moral compass can use what you say against you.