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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Have you tried meditation?

    On another note, your question is how to stop worrying but reading between the lines I get the feeling you are also asking how to get her to come home.

    If so, she’s 20 and therefore an adult. So your role needs to be as a trusted advisor rather than rule maker. Have you tried discussing your fears with her in a way that makes it clear that a) ultimately what she does is her decision to make, and b) you will love her regardless of what decision she makes? She’s much more likely to listen if she feels that you are trying to provide alternate perspectives for her to weigh and balance without trying to control the outcome.