• Wanpieserino@lemm.eeBanned from community
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    I’ve never had the desire to exclude people. Live and let live.

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      Then stay in your own space, it’s not that hard. And bragging that you wouldn’t exclude Nazis isn’t really a very good look

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        That is a major reason why I was so miserable in online fora controlled by centrists or white moderates. They basically let neofascists spew almost anything and the moderators rarely intervened. (In fact, there was one moderator who got angry at me for reporting somebody for heterosexism.) The only reason that I wasted as much time as I did on those fora was that I simply had nowhere better to go.

        It’s like watching a team of firefighters sit back and chill out when there’s a housefire right in front of them.

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          I think it’s more like watching a bunch of arsonists wearing firefighter uniforms stand back and relax watching

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          You were miserable because nobody really shared your opinions. Then you found a group that does.

          Kind seeks kind.

          Well, I don’t give a fuck what kind you are. Laissez faire. If you don’t want to talk to me, you fucking won’t. Because you don’t like me.

          I don’t need to exclude you by force. Over time, you will simply no longer be speaking to me.

          Excluding people limits growth. You don’t have a clue who you will end up liking in the long term. If you decide books based on the cover, ah whatever it’s your damn life.

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            You don’t need to explain to me how reality works. I’m not that young.

            Waving off toxicity like heterosexism and white supremacy as mere ‘opinions’ only suggests to everybody that you don’t take them seriously. Those aren’t trivial disagreements, like I think that the Star Wars prequels are boring whereas somebody else doesn’t. The consequences are far severer than that.

            I don’t give a fuck what kind you are

            you fucking won’t

            it’s your damn life

            The cussing can stop.

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              Those can all be changed into: discrimination is wrong.

              It’s a neutral term that doesn’t give away the side of people you want to defend.

              Heterosexism? Are you against heteros? White supremacy, are you against white people?

              You antagonise heterosexuals and white people here. Doesn’t matter that it isn’t your intention. Just say pro LGBTQ+. Pro racial diversity.

              You need to stop antagonising people if you wish to advance.

              It’s the difference of biking on an asphalt road or one with all rocks in it.

              It’d be a shame on my family if I stopped cussing. Godverdomme!

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                Consider spending time with a dictionary and stop with the stupid fucking advice. No one cares what you think will be successful. We don’t care if you are sensitive to offending white supremacists because we want to eradicate them all forever.

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            I’m married, have a job, will be a dad, got friends, have a stress free life, am physically fit, have a good functioning brain. Am mentally healthy. Laugh and smile quite a lot.

            I think I’ve been winning in life.

            How about you

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          A wealthy white man (middle aged I presume) who believes he can go wherever he wants and do whatever he wants.

          Constantly gets kicked out or belittled whenever he decides to step out of his bubble. All because he keeps showing his asshole, which he also wants to lick.

          Life truly is a comedy.

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            I’m 29 years old. My parents are Belgians and when median net wealth is so high, the likelihood of generational wealth is high. Their income came from labour, my dad worked at a steel factory for 40 years. My mom did part time opening a bank and insurance service at home.

            They built a house and bought the land next to it. Value of 1 million euros. Gifted to me and my brother. (3% tax)

            So yeah, I have 150k euros and property.

            Low cost of living as we all just live in one home. Can invest most of the income we have. My wife works 20 hours a week, she saves up 90% of her income.

            Being white is kinda necessary to have European generational wealth. Why? Because European DNA is European. You call us white. We’re European. Immigration is relatively new. But social mobility here in Belgium is fantastic. Diaspora’s their parents also own their home.

            Belgian nationals simply are wealthy. Why else do we have so many people migrating to this place.

            I go where I please. You stay in your bubble and insult me for not being in my bubble. I’m a globalist. I do nothing else than leaving my bubble. I go where I please.

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              Belgian nationals simply are wealthy. Why else do we have so many people migrating to this place.

              I already told you 💀 . You mfs pillage and burn the whole planet outside your bubble then act superior about how much more stuff your bubble has in it.

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              And then cry and whine like a baby when everyone else doesn’t ascribe to the same far-right neo-fascist delusions that you do