• Melobol@lemmy.ml
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    6 days ago

    I did this with having no kids.
    “Ohh I’m not in a position to create a good life for an offspring.”
    “Ohh now I’m over 40 no kids for me, I guess it’s better anyway. The climate catastrophe is real the World is on fire.”

    • whoisearth@lemmy.ca
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      6 days ago

      Here’s the secret no one tells you and you have to learn for yourself. There is never a good time to have kids. Either you want them or you don’t. If you want them you make it work. I have 3 and would have happily had 20. As soon as you have one your life is fucked anyways lol.

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      I’m over 40 and want kids. Unfortunately I’m a male so I don’t get to reproduce until someone else decides to carry my child for me.