

I’d say his motivation is a good reason. Not sure what you mean with “aloof” - I get a bit of a vibe that he and his friends might be a bit autistic? If so, you might want to probe whether strip club was just “a thing he knew about” that would be way out of his normal comfort zone or if it’s actually the strip-part that he wants to experience.



Stopped using “mom” and “dad” at about the same time as I moved out. Can’t really explain exactly why, just seemed like part of growing up amd becoming an independent adult of my own.
/Swede