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untorquer@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•More for folks from walkable environments, my question is: would you walk an hour and 15 minutes to go to say, the library?2·16 days agoBus or bike distance.
But i also walk closer to 3mph so maybe it would be on the edge of the weather is nice.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Men can take their shirts off for hot days and exercise. Why can't women do the same in 2025?1·19 days agoYeah anxiety sucks ass. Speaking from personal and recent experience my suggestion is ACT (or CBT) therapy if that’s an option for you.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Alex Jones sports Hitler mustache in shocking broadcast: 'It had a wild effect on women' English3·22 days agoDan and Jordan are so soothing.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Men can take their shirts off for hot days and exercise. Why can't women do the same in 2025?1·24 days agoThe taboo is starring/oggling or catcalling a stranger. If you look people in the eyes/face and don’t linger then no one is going to care except people who would have been a bother in any case.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Men can take their shirts off for hot days and exercise. Why can't women do the same in 2025?1·24 days agoSeems you have a plan. Good luck!
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Men can take their shirts off for hot days and exercise. Why can't women do the same in 2025?1·25 days agoOoh that doesn’t sound nice, you shouldn’t be hurting yourself.
I’m suggesting you learn [train yourself] to be in the presence of women comfortably without even having to worry about getting an erection. It makes it a lot easier to get to know women.
But if you want a men’s only gym there’s plenty of hole-in-the-wall places called “Iron Pounders” or something like that. At-home weights are also widely available.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Men can take their shirts off for hot days and exercise. Why can't women do the same in 2025?23·25 days agoJust like any other emotion arousal is a response to a thought. It’s a wave of experience that’s washing over you. That part you can control but it’s less important here. The important part is the thought triggering the arousal. When you are in a situation where you think you can experience sexual outcomes (even if just fantasy) you’re likely to trigger your arousal response and pop a boner. These thoughts can also be tied to set and setting. You probably trained yourself not to have erections around family or in places with social stigma around it like most public places. So you have to recognize that you’re having a thought of sexualization, then you can reframe the setting as an inappropriate one for sexual arousal.
In the moment you can respond with deep breathing meditation if that helps. Focus on your breathing and think about the thought and (paradoxically) feel the feelings the thought brings. You’re doing two things. 1. You’re changing your learned response by doing something other than sexualizing a random stranger or sand (which ironically, being silica, is technically rock hard). 2. You’re learning how to recognize the thought, emotion and mechanics of it’s development to better manipulate it.
It’s not like it’s quick and easy, it can take a while and some effort, but not being a pest nor feeling guilty about contributing to women’s daily difficulty is imo worth it. Not only does this make you a better more approachable person in public but learning about your own arousal can make you last longer (if that’s an issue) and have better, more intense and rewarding sex/pleasure. Win win imo!
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Men can take their shirts off for hot days and exercise. Why can't women do the same in 2025?1·25 days agoKilt suggestions?
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Men can take their shirts off for hot days and exercise. Why can't women do the same in 2025?46·25 days agoYou can learn self-control.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Steve Bannon: "The public schools and private schools ought to be designated as terrorist organizations too"English16·27 days agoI remember growing up that everyone knew what Marxism is and had a thoroughly developed class consciousness. Everyone was capable of developing a critique of capital. He might be onto something. It explains why America has such strong labor, free universal healthcare, and no bourgeoisie.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Steve Bannon: "The public schools and private schools ought to be designated as terrorist organizations too"English2·27 days agoMAGA isn’t strictly excluded.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Steve Bannon: "The public schools and private schools ought to be designated as terrorist organizations too"English151·27 days agoPlease don’t insult the unhoused by comparing them to this shithead.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Europe@feddit.org•Dutch parliament adopts motion to classify Antifa as a terrorist organizationEnglish2·28 days agoSo it’s in the debate/statements phase but not yet voted on.
Cheers!
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Europe@feddit.org•Dutch parliament adopts motion to classify Antifa as a terrorist organizationEnglish5·28 days agoWith the motion now adopted, the Dutch government must formally respond and decide whether to implement the request.
Is this a formality or is the adoption more of a “pwease listen to mwee” type of action?
untorquer@lemmy.worldto linuxmemes@lemmy.world•What do you think about the fact that Google Pixel phones are being confiscated in Spain if they have GrapheneOS installed?71·28 days agoCops find the stupidest ways to misattribute the mundane as criminal.
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Not The Onion@lemmy.world•FBI to Categorize Trans People As "Nihilistic Violent Extremist" Threat Group, Report SaysEnglish3·28 days agoFull depth pockets are for men and terrorists ig
untorquer@lemmy.worldto Europe@feddit.org•French town unveils monument equating Nazism and Communism, fueling protestsEnglish7·1 month agoThis thread feels like i just sat down for some coffee and a cigarette at a corner cafe on a cool April morning in Paris, 1871…
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