Different therapists may treat you differently. They should be very receptive to your needs on that. Ask them to treat you how you want. It’s important that you feel they’re being honest with you.

Result time depends on you. For example you may partly need validation that you are in fact, doing something about your problems and that thought can kick start it. Some things come in the first week. But you’ll also hit the limit of plasticity in the brain where some things are just going to take 6 weeks or several months of dedicated effort to see results.

It was probably the most inexplicable addition to the Matrix franchise. Like, we get it, you’re stuckin a terminal, a place of transition, yada yada… Just break the egg and get on with it.

No i made this up before that I think… I’m just sipremely and eternally 12 years old in my humor.

Me pressing the reset button…

To be fair the train equivalent of windows would crash either way.

I always feel sketch at the international airport connecting to “Airport WiFi” network…

My hotspot is BigFatDonkeyDick.

Not a problem if you’re not an air bnb host and you don’t wasn’t your neighbors to be either…

Something like

int *a = new int(10)

Int*b = null

While *b !=10 { b = rand(); a=new int(10)}

Return *b

I haven’t coded recently enough in c/c++ to remember syntax but the concept might work eventually if you’re lucky and have enough memory… Might need a time variant seed on the rand()…

The good within a border never justifies the evil inherent in its maintenance, at least not in the long run.

Though both of your example are invaders so 🤷

NASA was a 200% return on investment when it was cut due to being “too expensive” by Nixon

Every single universal healthcare system is cheaper than the US model.

Then there’s the consistent cuts to education where investments return 200%-1000%…

…

FWIW I think both US and China are terribly flawed systems.

I would probably have more “friends” but mostly because I’d probably still be resigned to putting up with a lot of toxic people.

The internet, while antithetical to mental health for the most part, did bring the destigmatization of self-care/boundaries and basic mental health.

Gave up Spotify. Now i spent $15/mo on artists that i like and can actually use my support. The rest are freely sourced.

How i read this the first time through…

Crows take hundreds of litres of water to make 1KG of cow flesh. Crows gotta cow.

Seriously don’t be a dick, just absurdly relevant.

Simple compliments help a lot too. "Nice work!“ or whatever can really make sometimes day!

I bought “nice” clothes for work (chinos, sweaters, fashionable boots) and then someone flirted with me while i was wearing them and i noticed some people checking me out. I only wear “nice” clothes now 🤣

Mid-thirties and I’ve been crushing on people like I’m 16 again.

Thanks for giving a straight forward response without quoting a footnote from some random asshole’s third lost manuscript.

Lol yeah little counterproductive in the long run

So jealous of being able to sleep on the plane…

Statics is good fun. That was one of those courses i spent 40-50hrs a week on.

That knowledge is great for other applications too. For example, it helps with visualizing of how tension laid in fallen trees on saw crews for trail maintenance.

I still use statics at work but i could in theory get by with just basic FEA guess and check.