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Cake day: March 18th, 2024

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  • The number of times I’ve been “accused” of being gay just because I don’t have a problem with homo couples. Sometime in the 200Xs I stopped correcting people and went with “so what if I am gay” which added a real satisfying record scratch moment to arguments.

    Let them believe I’m gay if they want, it’s none of their fucking business, and they should be aware there are queer folk in stealth mode literally in every aspect of their lives.


  • Yeah nothing to be proud of but I can’t discount how powerful this one is, now that I’m “woke” to it.

    Like I have worked for people for years and just not known they were racist or sexist, only for them to let it slip. And then you see behind the mask.

    Realising why there are no people of colour in my office, or women with any kind of power. Realising I would not have this job if I was not a white man.






  • Maybe it’s how I’m wired (I’m demi) or because I did get it out of my system, but I find the sentiment confusing. I know of several friends who’ve had way more partners and hookups than me, but they still seem to feel unsatisfied. Like they regret not doing even more.

    Maybe there is a magic number that one can hit that leads to a satisfying sexual history, but from the outside it looks to me like a type of dysphoria - that is, of the people I’m thinking of, I don’t believe they’ll ever feel complete.