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Cake day: July 7th, 2023

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  • I actually find it quite rewarding. Not to give myself too much credit but multiple people on the right have told me I’m very easy to talk politics because I’m not outwardly judgemental when I disagree. As for this specific reality check, both of us were on our way to meetings so we shelved it. We talk politics every once in awhile and I’ve been able to change his mind on a lot of things.

    Here are some tips for talking with the “soft right” (or anyone you disagree with, really):

    1. Understand their concern before you talk about the solution, you will probably find common ground to start from.

    2. LISTEN TO THEM. Ask questions! It’s not a lecture, you’re having a conversation.

    3. Be smart about how you disagree. “You are wrong because of X Y Z” makes you sound like an asshole, “I’m not so sure I agree with X Y Z” shows that you’re at least considering their opinion.

    4. You don’t know everything so be honest. “I don’t know enough to speak on it confidently” or “I can’t remember where I heard this so take it with a grain of salt…” AND if you later find out you were wrong, follow up. “Hey yesterday I told you X, it’s actually Y [link]”

    5. If they want to back out of the conversation, let them. Maybe you’ve given them enough to think about for the day.

    At the very least, be the person that makes them think, “the left isn’t all bad”


  • Yes. I was a video editor for years and part of that was subtitling without automatic transcriptions. I could keep up with most speakers and if I’m remembering correctly, the typing speed tests I took for fun were 150wpm+

    It’s definitely a skill I’ve taken for granted but it’s paying off big now that I work almost exclusively in AutoCAD (which makes you type commands, not just keyboard shortcuts)









  • Your experience predates mine by a decade but I’m right there with you missing the culture. You had to want to be on the internet to be there back then so the userbase skewed nerdier and smarter. Websites were also tailored to niche audiences, they didn’t aim for mass appeal.

    Internet culture remained pretty great until low effort garbage took over. I stand firm that (the modern definition of) memes ruined the internet and one day I’ll write my essay on it