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Cake day: February 23rd, 2024

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  • yeah we do get to choose that. willpower is controlling your feelings and make yourself feel differently.

    i don’t know what world where you live in that feelings are uncontrollable. I have suffered from PTSD and other powerful stuff… but I simple choose to not allow my feelings to govern me. When I am feeling that way I go ‘why am i feeling this way? it’s stupid, just stop it’ and a few minutes later I’m fine.

    it’s not any different than being on a diet. you choose what to eat. pretending like you have no choice in overeatting or eating poorly is just an excuse to justify the poor choices rather than deal with the difficulty of changing your habits.
















  • i mean you’re weirdo and your on disability… most people aren’t interested in dating any of that.

    also if you are male, you’re straight up fucked. if you were a woman it’s much more socially acceptable for you to be a dependent.

    most people look down on men that are not providers. literally your best chance of increasing your romantic and social opportunities is to make more money. if you don’t want to do that… well then yes you better learn to be happy alone.

    I make 150K a year and most women I date don’t think I make enough money to be considerable dateble. I’m also handsome, tall, and highly educated. Most women I meet are looking for a guy who makes 2-3x what I do, and living a far more lavish lifestyle than I desire.