Mossy Feathers (She/They)

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Cake day: July 20th, 2023

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  • Weed (not legal in all states)

    Most hallucinogens (at least for medical or supervised use)

    Being trans (lotta states trying to ban me)

    Being gay (they’re probably next)

    Abortion (many states ban this now)

    Free healthcare (not technically illegal, per se)

    Being homeless

    Polyamory (not technically illegal afaik, but there are a lot of legal benefits that married couples get which aren’t extended to polyamorous relationships due marriage being restricted to couples only)

    The list goes on because while there are many basic things that aren’t technically illegal, the system is set up in a way to fuck you because of the required profit motive behind offering basic necessities in a capitalist society.


  • I don’t think most people care. Granted, maybe it’s the dysphoria speaking, but I love it when someone calls me “girl” and I’m 30. None of the people I know care. If anything it feels more familiar to call someone a girl or a boy than a man or a woman. The latter two feel very “official”, while the former feel casual.

    Also I’ve absolutely heard girls call a group of men, “boys”. Like, one of the white suburban mom stereotypes is to call her husband and his friends, “the boys”. Like, “hey honey, how was hanging out with the boys” or “oh, he’s off with the boys doing who knows what”.












  • Bruh. I’m an American, living in Texas. This isn’t doomerism, this is real.

    You will get detained when they start rounding people up.

    You will be deported, assuming you live long enough for them to do so.

    They will not care that you came in legally.

    This is not being done out of concern for the American people, this is being done as a scapegoat.

    You will become part of the scapegoat.

    Do not come here right now. You are setting yourself up for a world of hurt.

    Edit: You have no comment history aside from this post. Your account is an hour old. The first person you interacted with was someone asking you why you’d want to come here right now; and now you’re accusing people of being hysterical or doomers. Fascinating.


  • Holy fucking shit. Bruh. Just… goddamn. I’m pretty sure my parents would be over the moon if I was wanting to marry someone like that, regardless of intentions. Furthermore, it sounds like they’re clear on what her feelings are and things like that. It’s totally possible that he’s looking for an heir which is why her attraction to his wealth isn’t something he has a problem with (he’s already planning to give it to her and/or any children she might end up having). It’s also possible (as someone else pointed out) that it may be more kinky and saying she is marrying him for his wealth is an easier (or less awkward) explanation. Regardless, however, it sounds like it’s consensual.

    I think the way I’d handle it is to voice my concerns just to make sure she’s thought of what might happen. When you do so, make sure she understands you’re not rejecting her, but trying to make sure she’s thought everything through; and that you need some reassurance yourself that she’ll be okay. Explain that you care about her and you don’t want anything bad to happen to her, and that’s why you’re so concerned. Then let her go and be there for her if things go south. Ultimately, she’s an adult and you can’t stop her from living her own life. At least it sounds like this path will ensure she (and any children she might have with him) will live a good life.

    I’m actually kinda jealous lol.