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  • Keyword searches with an understanding of search syntax was always king.

    Isn’t that only because of the limitations of the available technology only being able to handle simple strings, though? Conversational computing has been a pipe dream since early sci-fi, where characters would talk to their computers as if they were human; George Jetson never spoke to Rosie in keyword queries.

    I feel like keyword search syntax being “king” is more of a symptom, than an intentional choice.



  • You should probably tell them your plans before going through with it. They know you better than anyone on Lemmy could know you, and could probably help you identify the real issue that you’re trying to resolve, because I don’t think that chemical castration will fix the thing you think it’ll fix. Looking through some of your previous posts, I get the feeling that perhaps you may suffer from some social ineptitude, which I can almost certainly guarantee you is not going to be fixed by castrating yourself.

    You say that you’re aromantic, but you also say you’ve “never been successful in dating”, implying that you’re not actually aromantic and have actually been seeking companionship, and just not finding it. That’s not what “aromantic” means, and I worry that you’re twisting your own self-perception to fit into the definition of aromanticism. If you were aromantic, then the lack of romantic connections would not be affecting your everyday life as you say it is; the lack of successful romantic connections would be a boon to you.

    I’d strongly recommend a different therapist, maybe one who specializes in this field.








  • He is unstable and dangerous. Killing animals is a universal first indicator of future violence against people. Don’t take his threats lightly, even if you parents seem to do so.

    If you don’t want to call the cops on him (which, IMO, you definitely should), then you should be prepared for the worst. And by that, I mean arm and steel yourself for the worst case scenario. There is a non-zero chance that he’ll put you in an it’s-you-or-him situation.

    It won’t be your fault if he puts you in a situation where you have to put a permanent end to his threats. It’ll be hard to live with, but you’ll still live. Which is why I recommend letting the police deal with him, instead.

    It’s hard when it’s family, when it’s somebody you grew up with and still have love for. He’s broken, and it’s not your fault he’s the way he is. Nobody can help everybody, but you can still help yourself.