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nomad@infosec.pubto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If you could explain to your 19 year old self what you are doing with your life today, what would they say?41·7 days agoYoung me would be proud how much i know about tech and what in capable of. Young me would not understand I’m not and internationally wanted slick underground hacker with a few million dollars stashed away. Young me would see my company and not understand why I am not a millionaire yet, he did not have a concept of things taking time. He would also ask howiI. Haven’t kicked the wife out after constant problems with sex for 10 years plus and taken all three kids. “You love her?! You weak piece of shit. The kids need a mother? Yeah maybe, but you haven’t gotten any for over a year for the fourth time in a decade dude, you are a looser.”
Try to see something from somebody else’s viewpoint. Basic empathy.
I’m not interested in changing your mind, OP asked for insight, this delivers it.
I’m guessing you don’t have kids and have not yet thought extensively about retirement.
Marriage is about responsibility sharing in a way that survives even the worst of breakups while keeping all parties responsible in a fair way.
I’m also suggesting you entertain a thought experiment where you swap genders in the relationship and also assume you have at least one child you love dearly and taking care of it takes about 100 times more time and effort than you currently think.
Now you might have an inkling why people get married.
Full disclosure: not married but have most if not all the responsibilities in writing with the mother of my children so she does not end up in poverty if we ever split after raising our kids with so much of her life love and health.
nomad@infosec.pubto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is a book that you will gladly read again?1·11 days agoThe bridge trilogy.
nomad@infosec.pubto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you think this person paid for a vanity plate or not?6·15 days agoVanity plate, hes is an urologist.
Golden rule for children near adult age: advise and inform not more. Her body her choice and all that, but especially her right to choose. So if you overstep she will just keep doing what she wants, but stop taking to you about it. Keep an eye open if she is happy and healthy and offer her advice whenever you can.
It’s probably just experimenting at that age so chill and show her she can trust you.
nomad@infosec.pubto Technology@lemmy.world•New undersea cable tech listens for sabotage — can be retrofitted to existing fiber optic linesEnglish8·29 days agoThere is fucking light going through it. For fiber you know the second somebody breaks it. You can even see the timing of fibers breaking in sequence. This does not change the fact the cable is broken and needs repair.
As for others splicing into it: same shit. You always know exactly the distance to the next point of contact, so you also got that.
Wtf is this shit other than trying to sell something to the news?
Sounds a lot like you need to find your crowd. Socializing is not the issue, more like socializing with the right kind of people. The problem is finding out what and who you find engaging. I suffered somei of the same problems until I discovered hackerspaces. Have you considered trying out for a band or advertising about founding a new one?
nomad@infosec.pubto Technology@lemmy.world•Linux's Sole Wireless/WiFi Driver Maintainer Is Stepping Down - PhoronixEnglish2·2 months agoThe future of Foss is in corporate time donations for projects that are useful for them. Open software collaboration is one hell of an efficiency gain. Whenever me or my colleagues have dead time I ask them to work on improving open source projects. It’s just a few days every few months but it adds up. Also we like to fix bugs in Foss software that affects our customers as we usually fix and upstream them and can bill that to the customer. So the company gets played, the worker gets payed and open source gets funding. No more sole maintainers for life that don’t have money to heat their homes because nobody donates. :)
nomad@infosec.pubto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If you were making a horcrux, what would you use as one?7·2 months agoPretty sure most people forget that a horcrux must be hard to find and destroy but not so hard that your people can still find them, reach them and restore your life.
So store an object nobody can find without a map. Encrypt the map asychonously and share it via secret sharing with a group of trusted people. Now your horcrux has horcruxes.
nomad@infosec.pubto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is the origin of your username/nickname?3·3 months agoWishful thinking
nomad@infosec.pubto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's something common that in 20 years from now people won't believe we used to live this way?2·3 months agoDisposable vapes…
nomad@infosec.pubto Technology@lemmy.world•Not even OpenAI's $200/mo ChatGPT Pro plan can turn a profitEnglish34·3 months agoStrange coincidence right as they want to convert to a for-profit company structure. “Bro we are not even making profits, nothing to see here bro”
nomad@infosec.pubto Europe@feddit.org•German election: Scholz loses confidence vote – DW – 12/16/2024English1·4 months agoNastarovja!
nomad@infosec.pubto Europe@feddit.org•German election: Scholz loses confidence vote – DW – 12/16/2024English1·4 months agoInternal member emails? They are not for public consumption though.
Look into pettracker on github and buy the hardware on Ali express. Configurable ping frequency and swappable batteries if you order 2.